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A Marriage: Keep A Partner Always Interested |
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| Date Added: June 15, 2010 07:34:27 AM | |
| Author: abjby86 | |
| Category: Society: People | |
Finding a person with whom you want to start up a committed relationship is hard, but making the relationship last may be much more difficult. There are no conflict-free relationships. The way in which we cope with these conflicts will be the defining qualities of our personalities. Some couples will deal with harder challenges and this may either cause them to build up a relationship anew or force them to break up. Then there are the families that face large conflict situations that occur because of children becoming teenagers. Irrespective of the cause, conflict is inevitable and we all need to face it sooner or later. Learning to solve conflict situations and working on the relationship using diverse methods is necessary to save the relationship. Evolutionary scientists examined "mate retention strategies" in American men and ladies and found out these strategies include being excessively watchful and threatening violence. Different gender strategies to save relationships were discovered. To evaluate features valued in partners and how they save relationships, researchers of the University of Texas conducted a survey of 214 married people. Men, more than ladies, admitted that they exploited their social status and financial success as a tactic to arouse interest in them, reported the authors. Men also reported to keep their wives interested by making promises of changes and threatening sexual betrayal. Women were also more likely than men to take care of their physical appearance as a strategy to arouse interest. With regard to marital infidelity, it was discovered that if a husband suspected that his wife was cheating on him, he would attempt to keep his wife from public activities, threaten punishment and criticize other men. Surprisingly, ladies who suspected that their husbands were cheating did not work on the relationship any harder than those without suspicions. Unfortunately, some men's tactics involved behaviors that are identified as early indicators of the physical abuse of wives, reported the psychologists. For instance, in an earlier survey, 72% of women requiring medical care reported that their husbands limited their contact with family and friends, wanted to know the ladies' whereabouts and insulted women verbally. |
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